Wednesday, 9 July 2025

Dissatisfied At Work?

 I have a friend who I think is dissatisfied with his work.

The other day he asked me if I found what I did boring. It's not the first time he's asked me this question. It must play on his mind. Mine isn't a normal job, but then having been a carpenter all my life I'm not sure what a normal job looks like. He was mainly talking about my making items to sell online. 

The answer is the same every time. Yes it can be boring, I make a lot of the same thing many times over, but also I've had far worse jobs and I'd say this is the best I've every had. Not money wise (not by a long shot), but for quality of life. 

Part of me enjoys a repetitive task. I like making items as efficiently as possible, with the best templates and jigs I can make, making my small workshop work in the best way possible, 

I don't enjoy sanding, which is a bit part of what I do. I try to have the best tools to make this job as painless as possible. 

I do enjoy developing different products, although I have less time for that these days, but the magazine works helps to break the cycle every month. 

I do enjoy not having a "boss" or a direct customer who I'm working for. When I was a jobbing carpenter I was very aware that you're always being judged, and a lot of what you did, if it was in the workshop, or going to collect materials, was often forgotten. 

I do enjoy being self motivated. Sometimes I make a batch of items or a one off that I know will take many months to sell to see a return in my labour, but I also know if I'm not making something then I won't be earning anything. 

I love the flexibility it gives me, having three children to run around after it means I can do all that for them, make sure tea is on the table and attend anything else that life throws at us. I can also support my wife in her career. Having one child who is type one diabetic also means we have a lot of extra visits to do and sometimes have to drop everything to be there for her should she need it. 

I love that my children can see me working, can look at what I sell. I love that them seeing me "create" my own job my inspire them to look outside the box when it comes time for them to think about work. 

I don't enjoy how hard this type of work is on my body, my hands have ganglion cysts in where I've probably worked them too hard over the years and can be painful, not to mention lifting and bad posture working at a bench all day.  

I always disliked having to rely on other trade when I was a jobbing carpenter, making the items like I do means I'm mainly reliant on myself and my suppliers (who still cause me plenty of stress). 

I sometimes miss working with others, but still do days doing carpentry for one customer, so I get my fix this way. I also do plenty in the village and see lots of people in my week, so I'm never alone for long. 

I would like to earn more money, this doesn't earn as much as normal carpentry. But then we earn enough and I've also worked some rubbish jobs for more money and it was never worth it. 

I love the time my job gives me to think, or if I want to be entertained I can listen to a book or podcast. 

SO, I'd say that I do enjoy my job, yes it can be boring and hard on my body, but I think it's far better than any other job I'm qualified or experienced enough to do. So for now I'm happy, who knows what the future will bring, I may go back to being a "normal" carpenter in the future, especially if one of the children decided to take the same route, I love that my trade has given me so many options and such variety over the years. 

I can always remember a "friend" telling me I'd failed by not going to university, but I was lucky and my trade has brought me many opportunities (I'd still like to go to uni one day maybe, but only for my own enjoyment and then I think it's too expensive to justify it). 

Sorry this is a rambling post, more writing down my thoughts on being asked the same question many times over. 

Are you happy in what you do? 

6 comments:

  1. I'd say you've got it exactly right Kev and are absolutely making the most of your work and life. Success and happiness should not be based on monetary reward but rather how it makes you and your family feel, after all, once we've got a roof over our head, heat and food, what else do we really need? Ok so it might be boring sometimes, that's routine for you, but is shows that you know what you're doing and could do it with your eyes closed, so well done Kev. As for the university, not a failure at all, you've done better than a lot of people who have spent years doing their (useless!) degrees and then been unable to get a job at the end of it and are into massive debt. OK, if it's going to teach you something you don't know and that will be helpful to you in future, great, but otherwise, I'd say 'what for?', it certainly shouldn't be to impress other people, it's you and your family that matters not them.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Retirement has brought me happiness, I often was frustrated rather than bored or unhappy at work, I know I set myself high standards and I know it's my failings when I got so frustrated with others who produced shoddy work.

    ReplyDelete
  3. These days I like to diversify my work. Yesterday I was a building labourer laying concrete in mad hot heat. Today I am a gardener. I prefer working on my own these days more than I do with people telling me what to do all day. Have you never thought of selling at artisan markets every week Kev? I keep thinking of having my own garden plants stall .

    ReplyDelete
  4. I am very happy these days but I am essentially in your boat Kev and have been for the last 13 years. I did go to college and did work a "real" job for 20+ years and while I enjoyed it and aspects of it too, I certainly wouldn't trade any of those for the extra family time I get to spend with my wife and kids by being a SAHD.

    ReplyDelete
  5. The blunt answer to your question is yes I am happy in what I do. I could go back to factory engineering for far more money than I earn as a gardener but the shift work and factory politics are a grind that I would not like to experience ever again. Yes I have more bosses (clients) now but at least they listen to me and respect my opinions instead of just covering their arses and playing the promotion game and yes the factory offered shelter from the elements and the security of a regular pay cheque but the elements are better lived in not shied away from and regular pay cheques do not beat the satisfaction of working within nature. So yes I’m happy in my work and wealth is not always measured in money or possession.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Kev, I like the people I work with and the industry I am in gives me some satisfaction in that, at some point, I am helping people. But I could walk away tomorrow and not miss the work (but I would miss the people).

    ReplyDelete

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...